Saturday, May 9, 2020

Honouring Mothers


Tomorrow is Mother's Day. I would like to use this week's blog post to pay tribute to all of the mothers out there with special mention to the three mothers below.



My own mother, Doreen has been gone now for 20 years (wow I can't believe that), but Michelle and I still think about her often. Around our house there are many mementoes and items that were once hers, from her best china set to little keepsake items and nicknacks. When I think of my mom, it brings a smile to my face. My mother could best be described as an opinionated woman. You definitely knew where you stood with her, and she would tell you. She was a very caring person towards others. She would give you the shirt off her back if you needed it. Her quick wit and her generosity are some of her lasting legacies. One of my regrets is that our three children did not get the chance to really get to know her more. She died a few months before Sophia was born. One thing I am sure of is that she would have spoiled them all rotten. Miss you so much mom!

My wife Michelle is a extremely devoted mother to our three children Jonathan, Joshua and Sophia. I must say that I could not have asked for a better person to fill these shoes. She is such a wonderful mother to them all. Michelle is simply amazing!  Michelle sacrifices her own needs and wants for her children. She is their number one advocate, supporter and champion. Don't mess with her kids! Michelle is the glue that binds our family together. She is the one that helps to calm nerves, mend fences and helps us to realize when we need to be sure to see another's perspective. I love you Michelle with all my heart. You are an amazing wife and mother.

My mother in law, Norma is another amazing mother. Over the years she has raised six children, supported thirteen grandchildren and 8 great grandchildren. I have always been impressed with her steadfast devotion for all of her children. Michelle has had a wonderful model to learn from, in her own mom. Norma is currently in long term care, in a nursing home and we are not able to visit her during this pandemic. We miss her dearly and can't wait for this to be over so we can visit her again. We miss you Norma!



A word of advice to all reading this blog, cherish your time with your mothers because you will truly miss them when they are gone. 

To all of the mothers out there, I salute you. I hope that you have a wonderful day tomorrow! 


Happy Mother's Day!

Richard

2 comments:

  1. Hi Richard. Thanks for this post. I have many fond memories of auntie Doreen And spending a lot of time with your family...especially when you lived closer to our family. Mothers Day is special to me because 5 years ago, on Mothers Day, i decided to go visit mom in the hospital two hours north of here. Jeff and the kids were busy with other things that day and I felt this pull to see my mom. We had a good visit but I could tell she was not feeling all that well. So, I went back home. Mom died the next day. I was not expecting that. I am so grateful for our last visit and being able to tell her how much I love her. I agree with you...treasure time with our moms...our parents...our families.
    You take care.
    Connie

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  2. Thanks for sharing Connie! Lots of memories for sure. I am so glad you have the opportunity to spend time with your mom before she passed away. We have great memories to keep us smiling for sure!

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